Recently, I’ve been trying to figure out what the core definition of a relationship is
It is the act of surrendering your ego – any conversation where the ego takes the front seat is bound to end up in a fight.
It is the act of letting go of fear; the fear of failure – “what if I fall? Oh darling, but what if you fly”
It is the act of trusting the universe; that the other person is here to help us become better people by reflecting our own flaws through their own behavior.
It is a test of living in the moment; often times we reminisce about the past or get stuck planning the future. It is moments like these when you lose sight of what’s important – the feeling the person standing in front of you at that exact time and place gives you.
It is an act of courage; to hate/to run away is easy, but to love with all your walls down is an act only for the brave.
It is an act of reciprocity; respect and love are two-way streets. You must give to receive. Anything one-sided never works
None of the above are acts, because they must come naturally and consciously to us.
Every single day, the above elements are tested. And Every single day we make a choice: To allow our opponent to fill our mind with fear or to allow our souls to navigate us —
Lots of Love & Light,
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